"DEAL WITH YOUR SHIT. Deal with your own shit first of all. Understand your dysfunction, your issues, your anger and your harmful behaviours. Deal with it. Don't bring all your shit to other people. Don't foist it upon relationships, friendships, social groups, the workplace or pass it on to your kids. Don't expect others to deal with your shit and be free social workers, carers, bodyguards, crisis counsellors, financial back-up or emotional punch-bags. Deal with your shit, don't drag others into it and then wonder why your life is still crappy and now they hate the sight of you. It's your shit. Maybe it started as someone else's shit but it's yours now. Bring it to an end instead of perpetuating the dysfunction and drama because you are addicted to getting attention and you're so fucked up you get a thrill out of harming others. Deal. With. Your. Shit. "

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