"Exit Affairs are for cowards that simply cannot be alone. They've checked out of the marriage for one reason or another but before leaving they need to secure another partner. So the cheater never works on him/herself, they end up with a person that has no qualms about getting involved with someone already married (most times with kids), what could possibly go wrong? Sometimes it's not a true exit affair but the one the wronged partner found out about - so they cling to the affair partner because they cannot be alone. I think this is the way it should be, let these defects/train wrecks end up with each other and let their victims have the opportunity to move on to a decent, authentic life."

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