"Compliment the look of joy in her eyes when she does the things she like, or the way she loves and lives. Compliment how she cares, so deeply, or the things she works for a builds on her own. Compliment the fierce determination of her dreams, or the way she quietly doubts. Compliment the complexity of her thoughts, or the ambivalence that embodies her. Compliment what makes her beautifully diffrent or even her flaws if that is all you see..But wahtever you do, don´t call her pretty. Pretty is just her body, the vessel she was born in. Compliment her soul, for there lies the beauty of who she really is."

- TCh