"Four Principles of Relationships: 1.What we do not know about ourselves (the unconscious project), or will not face in ourselves (the shadow), will be projected onto the Other. 2.We project our childhood wounding (personal pathology), our infantile longing (the narcissistic going home agenda),& our individuation imperative onto the Other. 3.Since the Other cannot,& should not, bear responsibility for our wounds, our narcissism or our individuation, the projection gives way to resentment & the problem of power. 4.The only way to heal a faltering relationship is to make our unconscious projections conscious & take personal responsibility for our individuation." "

- Dr. James Hollis, Jungian Analyst